Every time I choose to not feel my feelings- sadness, shame, angry, angst/fear, disgust or hopeless despair, I am abandoning myself, no one is abandoning me more than I am. This is how we learn to live in our false selves and are ultimately left with trying to create our own identity. As I have lived my life without an identity, the identity I used to hide was enemy mode. This came/comes in many forms- I can hide from you, I can isolate, I can attack or I can work to fix m

I hear the words, let’s start at the very beginning, a very good place to start…when you read you begin with a,b,c, when you relate, you...

As I watched the webinar, This is Your Brain in Enemy Mode, a sentence that Jim Wilder spoke struck me- “Caution, when our mind is...

“People with damaged human attachments should have difficulty understanding God’s love of and special delight in them.” (p.121,...

Good morning, I have now watched this webinar on Zoom twice in the past two days and I can't recommend it enough. Please take an hour...

I have often wondered, God it feels so easy to love You but my husband, family, friend, feels so difficult. Then this thought went...

I need to confess something to you, I have not known how to come out of enemy mode with my husband/family/friends/etc so I could not...

As I sit here I want to pass on what a dear friend is sharing with me. It is too good to keep to myself. The other day while sitting in...

I want to share JOY and her story to encourage you. A dear friend, who teaches about how practicing returning to joy from the 6...

In Jim Wilder’s book Renovated (p. 83), he states, “Joy is the energy that builds strong attachment love. Joy means ‘I am glad to be...